What’s even more interesting is that with honey, you get more people to listen and think

You make excellent points. I do some PR writing, and that teaches the importance of an “impression.” Of course, there are times people read things into copy or just misunderstood what’s written.

On “opinion” items, sometimes the purpose of the writing is to generate commentary. But, as you mention, the opinions will create impressions among readers, clients and prospects.

I also believe that readers will have a better impression of the writing, even if taking a stance, if one gives at least a little credence to the other side of the argument:

For example, an item you and I have discussed a little via e-mail and one I have some very strong opinions on: “Health care in the U.S. is in need of serious repair. It’s the only G-7 country without nationalized health care. {for credence).

“Now there are some drawbacks from some of these nationalized systems…(give examples)…Then follow up with the rest of the “serious repair argument.”

Both of them are espousing the same sensible ideas. And as I see it, there’s really no contradicting issue here.

James is saying that when you post,concentrate on ideas and issues involve. Avoid attacking personalities and stick to issues. James cautions us that when we post, we should make sure to be polite about it.

Sort of disagreeing without being disagreeable.

I believe Burnman is saying the same thing. He is very passionate about posting what’s on his mind. Burnman said that when he gives his opinions on posts, it’s what he feels deep inside about the issue. He does not post just for the sake of agreeing so he can ” bag” possible future ” favors”.

He posts what he thinks on the issue. Burnman does’nt really give a hoot what others think about his views. ( A fact which most writers in this forum can relate to).

So I guess these two gentlemen are saying the same thing, only that they worded it somewhat differently.

In many cases, they automatically assume criticism is negative and to be defended against.

But again, you and I are agreeing. I haven’t said anywhere that people shouldn’t share their opinions. In fact, I personally welcome opinions.

My post refers to people who come off as lofty, condescending, snotty, above all this and generally nasty. In most cases, those people are *commonly* seen as nasty by all, not just by one. You know the ones.

It’s important to let our values and beliefs shine, agreed. It’s also important not to use them as a pitchfork. You do well on both, which is very cool.

And happy holidays to you too!

I pretty much like most posts or blogs because I can always learn something new or valuable I didn’t know before.

As for people in the real world… perhaps I have had thought differently after actually meeting and talking with them. Not on the Internet though because I read and re-read all the words carefully. I also check the bios or about pages, etc, which seems much easier to do.